A.M.S. v D.M., 2023 ONSC 6862
NB
I have more than a decade of legal experience, practising family law in matters resolved through negotiation or court proceedings, with particular experience in parenting disputes where emotions and conflict can run high. I am mindful that these matters often unfold at vulnerable moments in a family’s life, and that how they are managed can influence not only the outcome but the tone of the process itself. My role is to bring clarity, composure, and principled direction to situations that might otherwise feel unmanageable.
Over the course of my career, I have worked across multiple areas of law, including insurance defence, corporate counsel roles, and family law. That breadth of experience has exposed me to a wide range of personalities and pressures, sharpening my ability to navigate difficult conversations with tact and professionalism. Clients often come to me when communication has broken down or conflict has escalated. I am deliberate in how I engage, ensuring that positions are advanced firmly but with restraint and respect.
A significant portion of my practice involves parenting matters where cooperation is limited and tensions are high. In those situations, discipline and preparation are essential. I approach each matter with careful attention to both legal and interpersonal dynamics, recognizing that resolution is often influenced as much by how issues are addressed as by the issues themselves. My training in alternative dispute resolution reinforces my commitment to thoughtful negotiation, while my litigation experience ensures I am fully prepared when court becomes necessary.
My path to the legal profession was shaped by resilience and ambition, influenced by my family’s early experiences as newcomers to Canada. That foundation instilled in me a strong work ethic and a deep respect for the responsibilities this profession carries. Those values continue to guide how I practise and how I conduct myself—with integrity, discipline, and a commitment to excellence.
I was at a very low point in my separation when I was referred to Nandishi Bekah from Stanchieri Family Law. I had to give up custody of my daughter and my separation was at the 4 year mark and continuing. Nandishi took my case and assured me that she will put this all to a close and that she will make sure I get my life and freedom back. Not only did she deliver that but she has brought the smile back to my face. She was able to finalize my separation and fully execute my divorce with ease! She made me feel comfortable and made me feel like I actually mattered and was heard. She is an excellent example of humility and compassion. The attention she gives and the passion she has for family law is truly evident in her nature. She takes pride in making sure you are never alone in the fight. It was truly a pleasure to have met Nandishi and to have her as well as Stanchieri Family Law be my support system through my entire divorce and separation. Thank you for everything that you’ve done for me!
The Stanchieri Family Law team always put things into perspective when dealing with complex situations. They are honourable and compassionate, especially dealing with very complicated family situations. Julie Stanchieri (Partner), William Francis (Lawyer) and Ashley Kennedy (Managing Clerk) are remarkable, professional and exceptional!
I had the pleasure of working with Nandishi on a recent file and she was opposing counsel. This one is a special one for me because Nandishi was my associate when she first started her career almost a decade ago. She was then, brilliant, kind and sweet, and I couldn’t be more proud of the lawyer she’s grown to be now. In my dealings with her on this file, I got to see first hand what she taught me all those years ago, that compassion, understanding and perspective are everything in getting to a resolution. This matter was high conflict and instead of fueling conflict like many lawyers tend to do, she was poised and graceful in her demeanor, tactful in her approach and genuine in her want to resolve this for the benefit of not just her client, but mine too. I have learned from her much more than she learned from me and I couldn’t be more proud. I have no doubt that she will continue to show us, the essence of a GREAT family law lawyer. I remember keenly one thing she said in negotiations that changed the course of this matter and it was this: “Reesa, it’s not what your client wants, but ask her why she wants it. I bet you if you ask her why, she won’t have a reason and that’s your opportunity to get her to see why this might not be the best course of action”. I did ask my client why. There was no why. Once that barrier broke down, we opened up lines of communication that seemed impossible. This is Nandishi’s gift. Highly highly recommend.
Stanchieri Family Law has been a tremendous support for me while navigating the divorce process. I have been working with Nandishi Bekah and have been extremely impressed with her professionalism, legal knowledge, communication skills and ability to navigate complex situations. She has also been a great support personally and was always available to explain my options to me and strategies for moving forward as my matter evolved. I have also worked with Amit Dror and appreciated the value of his strategic guidance and experience. I am grateful to the entire team at Stanchieri who have assisted with my matter over the years and their ability to make a very stressful situation manageable.
